…There is NO secret. Honestly. There is no answer that will be revealed when you’ve learned enough, or suffered enough. There is no Secret to happiness, success or lasting contentment. AND THATS GREAT NEWS!
Great news for all of us; there is no secret to any of the things we all strive for – happiness, success in love work business relationships parenthood…The list goes on. There are plenty of opportunities, new things to learn, choices to be made and some of them may be painful. These things will all be in your control and you are capable of deciding which ones you want to put effort into, which ones will lead you where you want to go.
The idea that you can read a book, take part in a programme or work with a Coach and suddenly you’re going to have all the answers is a myth. I’m not sure where it started, and I know the idea of a secret was around long before people started to talk about “the universe delivering” or even “What goes around comes around.” I have to say that, in my opinion, these are two of the other great myths of our time.
The one truth that does apply to all the really happy, successful people I know is a simple one: they’ve all worked really, really hard to get where they are. Did they all believe they were going to succeed? No, not always. Did each of them have amazing support behind them? Again, no; neither financial or moral support were particularly relevant to their success. Each of them has a very different journey, a unique story of their life. And not one of them believes there is a Secret to their success.
I had a client a few years ago, who spent the best part of 20 years going from training programme to retreat, to mentor, to coach and most recently, back to University (in her 50s). While I’m all for personal growth and learning, there is a time when you have to actually put what you’ve learned into practice. So what’s keeping her so engaged in learning? She’s searching for that promised Secret, and she’s not quitting until she finds it!
Let’s learn from her experience and from the truly successful people around us (however we choose to measure that) and spend less time looking for “the answer” and instead, start creating our own results, which we can take credit for. It’s no secret that’s got to feel good!
Have an excellent day